It is crucial to know the laws applicable to divorce and separation while you're going through it. However, it is also important to be aware of the emotions and psychology of separations. Most clients would like their case settled as quickly and civilly as possible, so understanding what emotions to expect, from both spouses, can help in choosing a strategy and making decisions.
For example, if the separation is a surprise to one spouse, he or she may need time to work through the shock and anger and denial and grief. There is no point in trying to discuss asset valuations and how to share hockey expenses with that spouse until he or she can think more clearly. Forcing them to negotiate before they're ready will just increase the cost and conflict. Sometimes taking time, or giving your former spouse time, is the best way to make sure you can finalize your divorce with a fair and reasonable settlement.
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